Questions about rape invariably come up in discussions about abortion. This is a very serious matter and one that the pro-life movement has never treated lightly.
Rape is a violent act against a woman: a grave wrong committed against her. The pro-life position is that abortion is a violent, lethal act against an unborn baby. And for a woman who has been raped, an abortion is a further physical assault on her body.
Abortion is not a solution to rape. It will not erase the memory of the rape. It cannot undo the rape and it does not punish the rapist who has committed this criminal act. Abortion effectively punishes unborn babies conceived in rape by taking their lives.
There are many men and women conceived through rape who are alive today because their mother rejected abortion. Ryan Bomberger was conceived through rape. His mother chose life for him and Ryan was adopted at six weeks into a multi-racial Christian family, where 10 of the 13 children were adopted. Ryan said: “My biological mother was strength personified. She chose to be stronger than her circumstances. I am beyond grateful for her courage and the incredible gift of life and love she gave to me, especially through adoption.”
Rape is a highly emotive issue and often cited by abortion advocates as a bulletproof reason why abortion should be legal and freely available. The pro-abortion lobby uses rape victims to champion abortion rights. But not every woman who has been raped wants her rape experience to be used in this way. Kathleen DeZeeuw, who was raped and kept her baby, has spoken out about how it feels to be used as a mascot for the abortion rights movement: “I, having lived through rape, and also having raised a child ‘conceived in rape,’ feel personally assaulted and insulted every time I hear that abortion should be legal because of rape and incest. I feel that we’re being used to further the abortion issue, even though we’ve not been asked to tell our side of the story.”
Abortion may seem to be the only humane option for a woman who conceives through an unimaginably awful act of violence. But abortion results in a dead baby and a woman who has been further physically and/or emotionally scarred. Is this really a humane response to rape?
For many women giving birth to their baby after being raped is part of the healing process. “Abortion does not help or solve a problem – it only compounds and creates another trauma for the already grieving victim by taking away the one thing that can bring joy.” - Helene Evans.
When she was 18-year-old Rebecca Kiessling discovered she was conceived in rape. She has founded an organisation dedicated to supporting and protecting women who become pregnant by rape and children conceived in rape.
The circumstances of a child’s conception should not dictate whether he or she lives or dies. Babies conceived in rape are not responsible for the circumstances of their conception. Rebecca Kiessling explains why every life, including those conceived in rape, matters:
“It’s like the old saying: ‘If a tree falls in the forest, and no one is around to hear it, does it make a noise?’ Well, yeah! And if a baby is aborted, and no one else is around to know about it, does it matter? The answer is, YES! Their lives matter. My life matters. Your life matters and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!”